My ideal other half - a thank you note.

Today something fabulous happened. I found out that Pappy actually opened up a lead for me ! I am very thankful she help me with my business even when she was running on blind faith ( which is is definitely more than what I would have done ).She started to talk to Najmi in which I followed through to bring into completion. What a team we make ! Feel so much warm fuzzies for her. Now thanks to her tomorrow we are going to close one of the bigger deals.

I am very thankful to have found an ideal partner in her. She has provided me the support all the way. She has given me the the time to work on my business while still keeping very close and warm contacts with me. Time away is fine when it's time so sweet :). Every day she calls I can hear the miss in her voice yet she keeps supporting me through my many projects. I thank all my lucky stars in the heavens I have found such a supportive and patient woman.

Everything about her just fits me so well, right from her uncanny ability to read my mind to the fact that all my friends just adore her. She carries herself well ! I thank you too that you already so advanced in your process of cleaning up and putting health first in your life now. Life is blissful !!

Pappy if you ever do see this this one is dedicated to you and I hope that lack of sleep and tiredness did not hinder what I have been trying to say here. I love you.

Your purpose

Funny, this post reminds me of one of my friend's custom message. This guy always has the custom message "What is your purpose ..?" on his ym. For a long time I did not know my purpose. Then when I heard about the laws of attraction, one night i sent my request up to the universe to find my purpose. A day later I knew, and more and more of the situations I am presented to daily made more sense to me. I was put here to help my fellow man. It's such a humbling and joyous feeling to know that I have been chosen for this role. For once I see direction ahead and know what I must prepare for that journey ahead of me. Thank you. This has been a long time coming but it's worth the wait.

The community hub

Have you ever wanted to be more popular ? Have you ever wanted to be more in the pulse of what is going on in your neighborhood ? People going depend on you to get stuff done. You are like the guy in shawshank redemption who "gets stuff". People look to you for advice and help. In the IT world you are like the central hub where information passes and you are essential to the structure of the network. If you aspire to be someone like this then what you are aspiring to be is a community hub.

It's great being a community hub. A community hub is a person which everyone goes to get things done or pass along a favor or two. It is also a great place to build credo and leverage. You have to start by being a "go to guy" for all things going on around you. Let's put it this way, as the "go to guy" no favor is too small. In life everybody has a need big or small. More often than not most of these favors do not even cost any money. In the past I use to see these favors as a burden or a waste of time especially if they are from people whom I seldom meet or who seldom contact me. I was in the old mentality. Now I see it for what it is ... a free ticket to be closer to another human soul. One step closer to them, in the seat of power to influence their decisions. Played right you will be elected their trusted advisor.

More often than not I see people making the mistake of not fulfilling the small favors to their friends or aquaintences. For them these are a burden and a waste of their time. For me I see it completely differently. See it as a free ticket into their lives, you get to help out another human being no matter how small the favor and it feels great ! The credo you build with these people are so great you will be in their thoughts most of the time.

The trick is to help genuinely from the heart. Like how an animal can smell fear, people have the innate ability to smell falseness or if you are not genuine. Provide the service with your best intentions and compassion and you will be rewarded in dividends in everyway.

The power of your tone

Had another good power evening with wai-sun and nicky. The interesting thing today is I experienced first hand the power of the tone of your voice. I had what I thought would be a poor evening with Pap on the phone when I switched and perked up my tone and everything just changed. She suddenly felt interested enough on how to use the laws of attraction to pull in a cisco switch she was waiting for. While this is not really the advertised use of the laws of attraction, the fact that she wanted to know about something I am dabbling in makes me feel so good. Moral of the story tonight ... tone of your voice could be the difference between success and failure and the other thing is it's very very hard to disguise tone especially with the complement half of yourself.

Tonight too I achieved a break through. I realised why Pap and me have been missing the magic we used to have last time. Well last time I was just more fun to be around. I did not use to be a pathetic whiney bitch ! Suddenly I realise what she must be feeling. She is hanging on hoping that the magic would return too ! She wants us to go back to where we were too ... but standing here in my place is this whiney miney moe ... Pap if you ever do get to read this blog, I see it from your eyes. You are trying to hold on as I am when suddenly I zombified on you. I am sorry. NO MORE WHINEY MINEY STUFF FROM ME. I AM BRINGING BACK THE MAGIC !! !WHINEY MINEY